How Do I Help My Family and Friends (and Myself) During the Holidays? Posted on December 08, 2014 Holiday stress is upon us. The stress may be magnified by depression, especially if this is the first holiday after the loss of a loved one. There are hundreds of theories and suggestions of how to cope during this difficult time. Some may work for you and some may not.&... Read More
Who Should I Name to Handle My End-of-life Affairs? Posted on November 07, 2014 It is something none of us what to think about. We know we have to do it. It is in the best interest of my loved ones. It is practical, yet grim. Who do I trust to handle my end-of-life decisions? Who do I trust to handle my estate once I am gone? Who do I believe ... Read More
Burial or Cremation? Posted on October 17, 2014 Our European traditions have long dictated burial as the final means of disposition in the Midwest United States. However, as we are becoming a far more diverse and ecologically minded society, the use of cremation as the final means of disposition is growing. What shall you d... Read More
The Benefit of Having, “The Talk” Posted on August 04, 2014 My family members have said it. Many people who have come in to plan and preplan funeral arrangements have said it. I am willing to bet you have family members who have said it. You may have said it yourself. “Just cremate me and throw my ashes to the wind,” or “Just throw me in the ground and be done with ... Read More
The Funeral Was a Month Ago, Now What? Posted on July 07, 2014 A close family member has died, let’s say your spouse. In the days following the death, you are inundated with the heart felt support of your family, friends and co-workers. Over the next few weeks, your friends call and check up on you. Cards, flowers and food pour in to your home. Now it is a month after the funeral. ... Read More